The Ottawa Swingers Guide

Looking for more information about the swingers’ scene in Ottawa?

One of Canada’s more populous cites with more than 860,000 residents, the swingers’ scene in Ottawa is quite active and there are several options in the city for couples looking for some lifestyle action. There is one main club and two other venues that cater for couples (and singles) looking to spice up their sex lives. In addition, you can find a number of ways to connect with other swingers in Ottawa using swinger community websites to arrange your own meetings and parties.

In this guide, we provide information on the swingers’ clubs of Ottawa as well as information about online groups and communities where lifestyle followers can find other open-minded couples.

Swingers and Adult Clubs

Whilst cities like Toronto have far more swingers’ clubs, Ottawa has two large sex-positive clubs that are well attended by lifestyle couples and offer a good range of facilities.

Obsession Swing Lounge

A modern up-scale members only swingers’ club, Obsession is a popular venue in Ottawa for couples, single guys and unicorns. Run as a proper bar (no BYOB), the club is decorated with accented lighting, contemporary glass bar tops and crisp white seating.

The club has a good reputation for its clientele and management with a mix of regular members and always some new faces.

Play spaces range from private and intimate spaces to larger group areas; this is in addition to the large socialising bar and lounge plus dance floor.

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Bright, modern and elegant Obsession is an up-scale swingers club. Image via website.

Annual membership fees are $25 (per couple or single female/male) with door fees being $35 (per couple or single male); single ladies are always admitted free of charge.

The Obsession Swing Lounge is open every Friday and Saturday night from 9.00pm to 2.00am. Single men may not enter the club on Saturdays as these evenings are for couples only.

Club Debauchery

Club Debauchery isn’t strictly a swingers’ only venue but is a private members only club aimed at singles and couples with a sex-positive attitude. The club has inclusivity at the heart of its philosophy and welcomes members of all genders and sexual orientations as well as fetishists and kinksters.

The club is themed around fantasy and includes several beautifully designed play spaces that incorporate the following specialist facilities:

  • Fully stocked dungeon with puppy cage, birdcage, St Andrew’s cross and whipping post
  • Medical spa
  • Boudoir
  • Group shower
  • Suspension rigging room

As well as being open for members parties, meets and events, Club Debauchery also run workshops and rent out their space for filming and private play parties. The well-equipped dungeon is a great area for BDSM enthusiasts to practice their rope and bondage play.

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Not just for swingers, Club Debauchery is popular with all kinds of kinksters. Image via website.

New members can attend a meet and greet to familiarise themselves with the venue and to organise their paperwork. Annual fees for membership are $40.

The club is located by the Vanier Parkway just 10 minutes from Downtown Ottawa and is well accessible by public transport and by car.

The club is open daily from 11.00am to 2.00am but please check the website for details for any special events and workshop that may be scheduled to run.

Brass Club

Neither a swingers’ or a sex club, the Brass Club is a members only venue that is similar to an old style gentlemans club crossed with a non-sexual brothel. It’s hard to explain but you can attend the venue several times and still be confused by what does, and is supposed to, go on here.

Attended by hostess, couples and singles are welcome to join the Brass Club as members and enjoy the facilities together, separately or with company. However, there is strictly no sex on site. It is this aspect that makes the Brass Club different to the other two venues on our list. Still offering an erotically charged atmosphere, quite a lot of sensual play goes on but view the Brass Club more as a social and networking scene rather than an invitation to an orgy.

Despite what you might be thinking, the Brass Club is definitely a place worth checking out and is a highly decadent and luxurious club that includes 8 private lounges, fully equipped bar and amazing penthouse lounge overlooking Downtown Ottawa.

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An elegant, members only club for body rubs and sexy socializing, the Brass Club. Image via website.

You can even enjoy a selection of food with your drinks as you enjoy the attention of your hostess.

From the custom-built sea body spray showers to the multiple large flat screen TVs, the place screams elegance and is reflected in the management’s choice of staff. The ladies are as intelligent as they are beautiful and offer a range of services that do not constitute sex including massage as well as role play and ‘Kinky Thirsts’.

Located a few steps from Parliament Hill, the Brass Club is open as follows:

  • Monday to Friday: 9.00am to 11.00pm
  • Saturday: 10.00am to 10.00pm
  • Sunday: Midday to 6.00pm

Finding Swingers in Ottawa

There are plenty of ways to find other members of the lifestyle online with two of the main ways to do so still being the popular adult dating sites of Adult Friend Finder and However, there are several swingers’ sites that cater specifically for Canadian and North American swingers that have a good coverage in Ottawa.

Swinging Heaven

Swinging Heaven is a popular site in North America with good coverage across both Canada and the U.S. There are 2,400+ members in the Ottawa group with additional users across Ontario. The site is free to join and requires no credit card to register but does require an upgraded subscription to access premium features.

As far as social networking for swingers goes, the site has a good reputation for offering a good range of opportunities for couples and singles, males and females and across a wide range of ranges and backgrounds.

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Swinging Heaven has a huge selection of interested swingers in Ottawa. Image via website.

Other Websites

As well as the above, there are a couple of other options that are used by swingers in Ottawa looking for suitable partners and couples for hook ups and parties:

All prices are correct at the time of our review (May 2018) but we would recommend that these are checked in advance with the clubs in advance of attending any events. Most prices are subject to a valid membership being held. Prices are subject to change and may be higher for special events.

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