Looking for more information on the swingers’ scene in Toronto?
Canada has an active swingers’ scene with plenty of clubs and groups holding regular parties and events. Whilst the popularity of swinging has been on the increase in the suburbs it is often in the big cities where the larger venues and meetings take place. Toronto has a great scene for swingers with several large clubs and plenty of couples living the lifestyle who are a part of the wider community in the surrounding areas of Newmarket, Brampton and Oakvill.
In this guide, we take a look at all of the clubs, groups and regular parties for swingers in Toronto as well as providing the best sites for making contact with other local lifestyle followers.
Swingers Clubs in Toronto
There are five large swingers’ clubs in Hogtown, each offering a range of play spaces, themed parties and regular events. We’ve provide an overview of the kinds of things you can expect from each venue along with opening times, admission prices and membership requirements. However, it is always recommended that you contact the club’s owners before attending any parties to ensure that a) the meet is still happening, b) there are no special events running with specific dress codes or stipulations on admissions and c) that new members can attend.
Don’t forget that whilst some of these clubs accept single men at some meets, most will have a couples only event on their calendar.
All clubs on our list have the same policy on consensual rules which include the Golden Rule that ‘No, means No’ and incorporate the three founding principles of the lifestyle; Respect, Discretion and Consent.
Finally, always check the website for details on specific dress codes and whether the meet is a BYOB or if the venue has a license to serve liquor.
2814 Lake Shore Blvd W, Etobicoke, ON M8V 1H7
Opened in 2008, Menage a Quatre (aka Club M4) is an on-site swingers club that is open daily. Situated in the New Toronto area of Etobicoke the club is a spacious and modern venue that welcomes swingers from all backgrounds, ages (over 19s only) and sexual orientations. It is run by swingers for swingers and the design reflects a wealth of experience visiting other clubs.
The club is well equipped for all kinds of play including a large BDSM play zone equipped with benches and a St Andrew’s Cross and plenty of seating for voyeurs. As well as plenty of smaller play spaces there are several group rooms that are perfect for socialising as well as those that are fitted for group sex. There is a large and stylish bar as well as dance floor fitted with strippers pole. All in all, there is around 10,000 sq. ft of space for members to enjoy.
Weekends can get quite busy and often attract over 250 people through the doors; however, weekday events are often less busy and are an ideal opportunity for newcomers to explore the lifestyle without so many people.
New members are welcome but part of the initiation includes a compulsory tour of the premises plus a signed waiver. The minimum age for members is 19.
Fees for annual membership are $20 plus entrance costs to any events attended.
The club is open daily at different times with different events scheduled across the month.
Mondays (9.00pm to 2.00am)
- 1st Monday of every month: Cuckold Fantasy
- 2nd Monday of every month: Menage A Trois
- 3rd Monday of every month: MILF Mondays
- 4th Monday of every month: Initiation Night
- 5th Mondays (where applicable): TBA
Everyone is welcome on Mondays with admission free for single ladies, $60 for single guys and $20 for couples.
Tuesdays (Now open 3-7pm & 9pm-2am)
Known as ‘Hooky Tuesdays’, the club opens during the afternoon for those swingers who fancy taking some time off work, after all ‘a productive employee is a happy employee’!
The evenings are ‘T-Girl Tuesdays’ for TV/TS/TG/CD and admirers. It is both a pansexual and BDSM friendly evening and all are welcome. Entrance fees are free for T-Girls.
Wednesdays (Now open 3-7pm & 9pm-2am)
Celebrating Wednesday afternoons with a traditional Hump Day party, the club is open until 7pm before being turned over to Bi-nights every Wednesday. Single ladies enter for free at both events whilst single guys must pay $40 (afternoon) or $60 (evening) and couples $10 (afternoon) of $20 (evening).
Thursdays (Now open 3-7pm & 9pm-2am)
Thirsty Thursday afternoon play parties are the new Fridays when it comes to swinging in Toronto and M4 hosts a fully inclusive event to celebrate. $10 for couples and $40 for single men, ladies come free.
If you attend the afternoon session then you can get a discount to the evening ‘Cougar Night’ otherwise it’s $20 for couples and $60 for single guys.
Fridays (9.00pm to 3.00am)
Perfect for “Swingles”, Friday nights are the busiest night of the week. Discount cover if arriving before 10pm; (add $20 after 10pm).
The last Friday of every month is a popular networking event called ‘Chatters’ which attracts between 250 and 300 people. It is well worth booking a room at the nearby Stay Inn as you not only get a discount, but you also get a free limo ride to the venue.
Saturdays (3.00pm to 7.00pm & 9pm-3am)
Sundays (3.00pm to 7.00pm & 9pm-2am)
Evening before Statutory Holiday: 9pm-3am (Friday Night cover applies)
Saturday night is the only night that is reserved for couples and single ladies only. Ideal for new & established couples exploring the lifestyle. $30 before 10pm; (add $20 after 10pm).
M4 is open during the afternoons at the weekend with the following themed events taking place:
1st Sat – Sexy Plus BBW Party
2nd Sat – Bi Pleasure Party (LGBTQ+)
3rd Sat – BBC Party
4th Sat – Cougars Gone Wild
5th Sat – M4 Pleasure Party
1st Sun – BiFet Party
2nd Sun – Trisch & Jerry’s event
3rd Sun – DTF/GB party
4th Sun – Trisch & Jerry’s event
Other Special Events include:
Chatters Night: Last Friday of the Month, 9pm-3am.
Meet all the members from the M4 chatroom.
Young Swingers Society (YSS): 2nd & Last Saturday of the Month, 9pm-3am. Cover for couples under 40 is $10 with membership. Separate lounge area is reserved for swingers under 40. All ages are welcome to enjoy the main bar & Play areas.
Ladies Choice GB Parties: Select weekend afternoons, 3pm-7pm.
Women who want to explore their multiple partner fantasies in a safe, monitored environment. Meet & Greet at 3pm sharp, followed by hours of steamy fun. Couples/Women register in advance to be official GB Gals. Attendance is 125-150+ members.
Play Area: Three private bedrooms with plush vinyl king beds, Couples Only area, semi-private and open play spaces. Glory Hole and Czech sex wall, double-sided St.Andrews Cross and fetish furniture. ClubM4 is LGBTQ+ and Kink Friendly.
In addition to the above regular events, the club also runs special parties and celebrations so check the website for details. These often coincide with public holidays such as Halloween, New Years Eve etc but may also include anniversary parties, Valentines Day balls and other important dates.
407 Speers Rd #4, Oakville, ON L6K 3T5
Situated about 40km to the south of Toronto in Oakville, the NYX Lounge is a large and elegant modern swingers’ club. It is a large and spacious venue that is reminiscent of a five-star boutique hotel. Play spaces are designed with comfort and hygiene in mind but without ignoring the importance of sexy aesthetics.
A mezzanine level party space looks out over the open bar and dancefloor with plenty of seating to allow for socialising and plenty of flirtation. The bar and lounge offers VIP booth seating as well as bottle service.
There are two large play areas including a loft space with four beds and an open view to the dancefloor below.
New members (age 21+) must sign a waiver and undertake a club tour before they will be allowed to attend any events. Annual membership fees of $60 apply for couples, $20 for single ladies and $100 for single gents.
The club is open on Friday and Saturday nights from 9.00pm to 4.00am as well as the occasional Mondays, Thursday and Sundays for special events (see website for details).
Standard fees on the night (with a valid membership card) are as follows:
- Single men: $40
- Single women: Free
- Couples: $20
Special events and parties for big holidays such as New Years Eve, Valentines and Halloween are ticket only and are charged at higher rates.
231 Mutual St, Toronto, ON M5B 2B4
A premium, up-scale swingers’ club in the heart of Toronto, the Oasis Aqualounge is a fully licensed sex spa that has been expertly designed inside a 19th century mansion house. Modern and contemporary in styling, the space covers an enormous 9,000 sq. ft and incorporates some excellent facilities.
Members can enjoy exploring a variety of social and play spaces including:
- Indoor hot tub
- Outdoor heated pool
- Sybian sex machine
- Real Doll sex doll
- Private play room (must be booked on the night for a maximum of two hours)
- Semi-private play spaces
- Group play spaces
Admission fees vary by day and event but are generally as follows (note, there are no annual membership fees):
|Type of Visitor||Monday||Tues and Wed||Thurs to Sat||Sun|
|M/F Couple Day Only||$80||See full day/night||Thu. $50. Friday $60. Sat. N/A||$60|
|M/F Couple Day and Night||$80||$80||Thurs: $80
|$80 (after 8pm)|
|Single male||$80||$80||N/A||$80 (after 8pm)|
|Single Female/T-Girl||$5||Free||$20||See event.|
Students get a discount, check website for details.
The Oasis Aqualounge is open daily from 11.00am to 3.00am though they hold a regular programme of themed events including an under 35s night each Monday.
For further information, you can read our full review of the Oasis Aqualounge here.
The O Zone
36 Stoffel Dr, Etobicoke, ON M9W 1A8
Covering over 10,000 sq. ft of space, the O Zone is another popular swingers’ club on the outskirts of the city in Etobicoke. A hedonistic playground for couples and singles, the venue is a modern members only club offering a host of amenities to enjoy, including:
- Large dance floor with cages, platforms and poles plus a live DJ operating light shows and a state-of-the-art sound system. Music is varied and includes popular R&B and chart hits as well as retro rock and Latin.
- Multi-level lounge with intimate social areas and larger group spaces for mingling with other members.
- Fully licensed bar with premium liquors and beer.
- Food is also available and snacks are served free of charge.
- Multiple play zones including private, semi-private and group spaces.
You can organise your membership on the night of your intended event by bringing along a completed membership form (available via the website) and some photo ID. Your membership is then included in your entrance fee.
Members range in age from 19 to 65+ but the majority of regular guests are in their late 30s/early 40s.
Prices for admission are as follows:
- Couples: $60
- Single ladies: Free on Fridays and $10 on Saturdays
- Single men: Fridays only – enquire for details
Couples who attend a Friday night event can get a voucher to return on Saturday night.
The O Zone is open on Friday and Saturday nights from 9.00pm to 3.00am. Single men are welcome to attend the Friday night events but spaces are limited in order to achieve a good balance of males to females. No single males are allowed in the club on Saturdays.
Special events are run in conjunction with popular holidays and are ticket only. Prices vary for these parties so do check the website in advance.
The X Lounge
1625 Sismet Rd, Mississauga, ON L4W 1H9
The X Lounge in an up-scale lifestyle club 15 minutes south of Toronto in the city of Mississauga. It is a members only club for couples and single females with a select number of pre-screened and hand-selected single males.
A modern club with a elegant interior, the X Lounge is a vibrant venue for adventurous adults looking for a party atmosphere. Whilst there are plenty of play spaces to enjoy, the X Lounge has a nightclub feel to it and has both intimate socialising areas as well as a large dance floor and group play zones.
Styled with electric blue lighting, chic white curtains and leather seating, it has an air of decadence to it which well suits the clientele that regularly attend the venue.
The majority of members are in their mid-30s although the range of ages is typically between 25 and 50 years of age.
Membership fees for the year are $80 for couples and $20 for single females with admission fees being charged as follows:
Single men may attend on Fridays on a single-night pass; admission is at the discretion of the door host.
There are premium membership passes available for couples ($600) and single ladies ($100) which offer guaranteed tickets for all six of the clubs major themed events:
- Valentines Lingerie Ball
- Burlesque X Show
- Glitter & Glow
- Anniversary Party
- Halloween Party I & II
- New Year’s Eve
The X Lounge is open on Friday and Saturday nights from 9.00pm to 3.00am and 9.00pm. They are also open on selected Thursday and Sundays plus hold special themed events during the course of the year. Full details of upcoming events are published on the website.
For further details and more detailed review you read our full guide to the X Club Lounge here.
Swingers Communities in Toronto
As well as the main clubs, there are plenty of lifestyle members who use online services to meet with other couples for more intimate play dates and social gatherings. You can find thousands of swingers in Toronto using the following community and member sites as well as through popular networking channels such as Adult Friend Finder and alt.com.
This popular swinger’s networking site has over 4,500 members in Toronto alone but the surrounding areas also have a huge number of active singles and couples looking for fun. In Mississauga there are an additional 952 profiles plus:
- Markham:150 Members
- Oakville: 260 Members
- Brampton: 611 Members
- Newmarket: 224 Members
- Vaughan: 222 Members
- Oshawa: 548 Members
All in all, there are around 10,000 active profiles registered within half an hour of Hogtown.
Kasidie is a popular swingers community group that mainly covers the U.S.A. however it also has some good coverage in Canada with information on parties, events and clubs. There are several community groups that network through the site including the ‘Sin City North’ group which has 117 members, the ‘Swinging in Toronto’ group which has 53 members and a group which is linked to the NYX Lounge that has 38 members.
Joining Kasidie is free but to access these online groups you will need to upgrade your membership. Fees for membership start at $19.95 per month with discounts for longer subscriptions. Members benefit from access to chat rooms and the ability to contact other members using instant messenger, email and forums.
Other popular websites where swingers’ events are advertised and possible hook-ups are available include:
All prices are correct at the time of our review (May 2018) but we would recommend that these are checked in advance with the clubs in advance of attending any events. Most prices are subject to a valid membership being held. Prices are subject to change and may be higher for special events.
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